Having a Great Sex Life

Where Does Great Sex Begin?

The greatest sex you'll ever have whether you are married, single, man or woman always starts as thoughts of having sex. Thoughts may grow into fondness, passion, desire or love. These are all key elements of feeling the earth move when you are having wonderful sex. Without the initial mental/ physical attraction in your mind, great sex will likely not occur for you. Having great sex every time includes every aspect of a relationship or marriage.

I Think I Found my Man, Now what?

Firstly, unless you had a warm fuzzy feeling. A feeling where you feel a sense of out-of-control inner passion then you know, there's no "I think"! I have a great sex life and it comes from creativity and imagination within my relationship. The first time I had sex with my partner it I can recall my body shaking when we finally got down and dirty. This was after a 5 a year platonic relationship which ended up in a month of serious dating, then WHOA.

"Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation. The other eight are unimportant." -- George Burns

How Important is Having Great Sex Life?

It's a great bonus but there are people that live without a having a great sex life, I just don't know how?. To keep my myself satisfied there are several ways I do this. We need to keep variety and spice in your marriage or relationship to have a better sex life. A woman's guide to a great sex life sex may differ greatly from a man's. This is where there is a meeting of the minds...a sexual discovery of a sort. A time where a newlywed couple engages in sexual activity designed to discover a the keys to a great sex life. Although having great sex in a marriage is not mandatory it is certainly icing on the cake. I am going to share a few crazy thoughts that run through my head that work great for me below.

My Personal Fun Sex Prep Recipe

Think of great new sex ideas to drive your man crazy.
Do you like getting tickled during crazy sex?
What is the wildest time during sex you have ever experienced?
Do you have good communication between partners?
You've heard the term "mind sex"....is your mind into it?
Is there a new sexual position that you might like to try?

By using your imagination and having a partner equally just as sex starved- it can be to the moon and back. Any stressful situation can be cured with a fresh and exciting round of fun sex, it will become a regular deal with practice. Keep the intimacy alive and wonderful sex will always be a positive factor in your marriage.

For Turbo Charged Sex People

These days there is no need to be embarrassed about walking into an adult shop and getting your own personal sexual toys. There many options and it can be allot of fun walking in and looking at the products. Some of the most popular sexual enhancement toys include:

Jokes Humor
Vibrators
Handcuffs
Blindfold or masks
Glass Toys
Dildos Male
Toys
Massage-Lubes
Anal Toys
DVD's and Erotica
Erotic Clothing
Furniture
Liberator Shapes
Sex Machines
Accessories
Novelty-Party
Lesbian Toys
Gay Toys
Silicone Toys

You really don't have to feel like a little kitten walking into an adult novelty shop, there are many men and/or woman that frequent the adult novelty shops to fulfill their sexual appetites or just improve a great sex life. Most sexual toys that are used for sexual penetration require proper maintenance and cleaning. So while you're there pick up the proper cleaners as well. If you are the shy type, that's OK to because you can order all of these items online. They are generally delivered in a non discreet packages for your convenience.

You'd be surprised at the number of men, women and married couples who have or have a great sex life all the time, and most of them are think about it right now. If you use any of the sexual aids listed above keep them cleaned and maintained as instructed. If you develop any irritations you should speak to your doctor immediately.

Otherwise, enjoy having the greatest sex :-)

Maggie May has been in the TLC business for many years. Her accomplishments include, sex education and dream interpretation. Maggie has a compassionate view to those that feel they have been taken advantage of and can provide moral enhancing solutions.

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Good Loving and Great Sex - Keeping Sex Alive

I think we now know each other well enough to be able to talk about SEX. This topic on its own though could fill multiple volumes of books so I'm just going to raise a few thoughts I have about the topic.

Firstly let me say that while being sexual is crucial in defining the success of a relationship it is not the be-all or end-all of a relationship. As many relationships survive without sex, or with some variation of sex, as there are relationships that have sex as a central component.

Let me say something more about that: As I was researching for this topic I was astonished to note the variety of ways couples manage their sexual relations. There are those who have no sex at all to those who use pornography, sex toys, swinging marriage, which is sharing with other couples, or practicing open marriage, where one or both have sex with other people separate from the marriage.

The critical thing here is that it should simply be about whatever turns you on keeping in mind that whatever turns you should also turn your partner on; that whatever you employ in this part of your relationship is OK by both of you. It must be discussed and agreed upon by both in a very open and honest way otherwise it must simply be a no-go zone.

Let me highlight the absolute importance of this by an example. Many couples complain that after a period of time in their relationship sex can become a bit ho-hum. They may be caught up in work, children or other commitments and therefore have little energy left for coming together sexually at the end of the day or at the end of the week let alone making it special or different for each other.

If this is how it is for you, it's important to talk about it, and talk about it before someone comes to do something you may come to regret, like having an affair. In this discussion the couple may be surprised to find that they are both feeling the same way.

If this is the case some decisions need to be made. It might be that you are simply not compatible sexually. If this is the case then you need to talk about how this might be remedied. It might be that it's time to introduce something else into your sexual play. The possibilities here are limitless and may include introducing some sex toys that are now easily and discreetly available in sex shops or off the internet. Sex toys could be simple things like massage tools or dildos or could be videos or, if it works for you, fantasy implements.

Something else that could be introduced into the relationship, though I say this with a caution, is another person or another couple to either share the sex act with you or with whom you each might spend time separately from each other.

My caution here is that when you invite others into your sexual relationship you might also be inviting the "green eyed monster", called jealousy, or a further erosion of the lack of intimacy that may already exist between you. The boundaries need to be explored and agreed to by both of you before embarking on any extra curricula activities.

For some simple strategies in keeping the sex alive in your relationship try the following:

* Make sure you have regular date nights to give you both a chance to dress up and be relaxed with each other.

* Practice flirting with each other or role playing as if you've just met for the first time. Send love letters and buy flowers or cook your partner's favourite meal.

* Meet in town after work one night and book a hotel room. If you need to get the kids babysat. They will be ok and so will you as you come home the next day refreshed and reenergized.

Just remember, more than anything, sex should not be seen as a tool to hold on to someone or as something either person must do because they are in a relationship. More importantly having sex should be a time for play; a time to be expose your inner self, to experiment with new things as well as being a time to just be with another human being in a very intimate and loving way without reserve or anything else getting in the way.

And don't wait to do something about this issue if it's present in your relationship. Go right now and do something about it. Let me know how you go.

So until next time - Relate with Love

Lidy Seysener

About the Author

As a qualified Counselor, Lidy Seysener specializes in helping individuals and couples make the most of their lives and their relationships. She's been Counseling for more than twenty years and can also boast having been in an enduring relationship for as long.

For more information about me or what I do take a look at my newest website: http://www.acouplesjourney.com where you will find lots more information including quizzes and questionnaires. enter your details and you will get a free copy of my limited edition ebook titled 'Relationships - A Couples Journey'. Alternatively check out my blog page at: http://www.lidysblog.uwcblog.com and submit a question of your own that you would like me to answer or just post a comment on one of the existing entries.

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Great Sex Tips for Females

It is a shame that for many couples, a lack of sexual variety and exploration leads to a waning of interest in sex over time. Often it is the woman who come off second best and they may lose and interest in sex, their partner or both. Surveys have shown that poor quality sex is one of the main reasons women have affairs outside their marriage and that many women complain that men are lacking when it comes to satisfying a woman. Here are some ideas that will hopefully add spice and satisfaction to your sex life.

Tell your partner what you like and want. Men complain that women simply don't tell them what they enjoy. Open up to your partner, tell him what gives you the most pleasure and what you would like to try. Maybe even share a fantasy together - who knows, it may come true.

Create the right mood. It is hard to be in the mood for great sex when the house is a mess, the children are screaming and you've had a long and stressful day. Set aside a time when you can focus on your lovemaking without distractions. Adding some candles, incense, wine and rugs can add greatly to the sense of relaxation and eroticism.

Appeal to men's visual sense to get him wanting you. Men are very visual creatures - that's why they enjoy looking at women so much! Knowing this, find ways to stimulate your man visually. Look at some sexy images on your computer together, wear some revealing lingerie (and if you don't have any suggest you can go out together and buy some).

Use toys. Sex toys are a part of countless happy sexual relationships and can add a great deal of fun. Take a trip to the sex shop together or have a look online.

Think about a threesome. Yes! Even just talking about it can add an erotic edge to your lovemaking. But if you're brave enough, the real thing can be very memorable for you both.

Watch an erotic movie together. Soft porn erotic movies that you can rent from the movie rental store or online can be a great way to get you going for a night of passion. "Eyes Wide Shut" and "The Story of O" are two famous titles.

With a bit of planning and imagination, things such as the ideas above can make a great difference in spicing up your sex life. Have fun!

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Michael Andrews is a well-known therapist, author and counselor specialising in couples' relationships, especially sexual relationships. He is the Director of the Love Sex Institute and produces the Great Sex Tip of the Day at http://www.greatsextipoftheday.com

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