Best Sex Toys For Women - How To Choose Your First Vibrator

Everyone wants to know what the best sex toys for women are and really it's always going to come down to personal choice. But if you have never tried one before and are feeling a little timid about purchasing your first toy, then our guide to female sex toys for beginners is for you.

Thinking about purchasing your very first vibrator can be exciting but also intimidating. Do you go in to a shop, do you order online, do you get it delivered to your home, and what if somebody finds out! And even when you get passed all these hurdles, how do you possibly know which are the best sex toys for women?

When it comes to girls and toys it is normal to feel apprehensive about all these points. But if you're feeling too timid to take the plunge with a female masturbation vibrator, then think again. Every woman with a sex toy has had to overcome these feelings and more often than not, end up becoming quite the collector!

Firstly, think about how you are going to get one. Ordering online is usually a very reliable process and it's easy to know what the top selling sex toys are from other user's reviews. But if you don't feel comfortable having it sent to your home address, you can always have it delivered to a friend's home or collect it from the post office.

If you don't have the ability to order online, then there is no shame in walking in to a sex shop. There are many stores which now specifically gear their stores to the lucrative female market, so if you're not ready for endless rows of black leather, chains and impossibly sized dildo's, then immerse yourself in a shop that is specifically for women with happy pink rows endlessly filled with beautifully coloured female sex toys.

Now when it comes to actually considering which toy is for just remember this. Basically the best sex toys for women are simply the ones that get you off. So when deciding which one may be for you, consider exactly how you like your sex and then find a sex toy or female masturbation vibrator to match.

If you're not exactly sure what you're looking for then consider this. Sexually active women can usually be divided in to three groups:

Women who prefer cunnilingus; Women who prefer penetration; And women who love both. So with this in mind, think about what type of sex you prefer when choosing your female masturbation vibrator.

However, if you are not very sexually experienced and are unsure which category you may come under, try not to get too overwhelmed with all the different colours, sizes and buzzing devices. Some may confuse, fascinate or even freak you out, and something that may totally scare you to begin with might actually become your most favourite thrilling toy.

When making your decision, a good place to start is by looking at the top selling sex toys. You can either do this online by reading reviews or by asking the shop attendant. The best toys for women do not have to be the most expensive and there are many varieties of affordable sex toys. If you don't want to spend a lot of money but don't want to be disappointed if you buy something cheap, a good place to start is with a mid priced toy with a history of being one of the best vibrators for female orgasm.

Like any purchase that is important to you, be sure to do your research beforehand and perhaps start out firstly with affordable toys and something that is less intense before upgrading to a more powerful female masturbation vibrator.

Whatever your choice, rest assured girls and sex toys were made for each other, and even if you really don't know which one is going to bring you the most pleasure, making your first purchase of any kind is a step toward a whole new world of self pleasure, sexual independence and incredible satisfaction.

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Women, the New Consumers of Sex Shops? An Analysis of the Female Erotic Retailing Industry

The erotic industry has changed considerably over the past decade as female-led retailers have moved into what was once seen as a predominantly male market place. This image shift has come from the rise of women focused erotic shops. The UK has five strong contenders: Myla, Ann Summers, Beate Ushe, Coco-de-Mer and SH! These retailers have disassociated themselves from the negative image of sex shops to create plush, boutique style, shopping experiences. The shops are often luxurious, opulent, ascetically pleasing and most of all female friendly.

A major development in encouraging the growth of the female erotic retailing industry is women's changing attitudes towards sex. "Once renowned for being sexually repressed the British are now seen as ready and willing to welcome chains plying risqué underwear and adult objects," (Marketing Week 2002, pp19). Female independence - financially and emotionally - has played a major part in why female erotic shops have become more acceptable.

Michael Vaughan, Beate Ushe's UK Retail Executive takes this view further. "Attitudes have changed enormously in the past five years and even more dramatically in the past two. There are some broad factors, such as more divorcees, meaning more single women, more women living alone, and more equality that account for this. Women generally have greater control of their lives," (Marketing Week, 2002, pp19).

When I wrote my first dissertation on the rise of women as customers of female-led sex shops I surveyed women from across the UK. The results showed a strong negative image associated with sex shops, even though there are more female erotic shops in the UK than there ever has been - albeit mostly in London. Although the industry is growing, the old perceptions are difficult to shake off.

For the women surveyed the overall feeling of sex shops was of 'seediness', 'men in long raincoats', and being located down 'dodgy back alleys'. These perceptions were spread across all age ranges, and locations. Another issue which arose was one of embarrassment. Being seen in a sex shop, buying objects of a sexual nature caused a great unease amongst the women.

The problem then is how respond to these issues. Shops such as Myla and Coco-de-Mer have done this successfully by creating high-end luxury boutique shops that are far removed from the male sex shops that dominate the industry. With open, clear windows and beautiful furnishings the shops give a sense of openness showing women they have nothing to fear.

The research identified great interest amongst women regarding erotic shops, and their product. But the indisputable driving force that stopped women from visiting sex shops was the negative associations connected with the industry. Bringing female sex shops into the shopping mainstream is an important aspect in changing this attitude. Location is also critical. Women need to feel safe.

There is no doubting that women, like men, are interested in sex, but in terms of sex shops women want style, safety, comfort and fashion. The belief that sex shops are frequented by 'dirty old men' is undoubtedly a view that needs changing. Shops like SH!, in London, have taken this on by adopting a policy that men aren't allowed into the shop unless accompanied by a responsible woman. Where ten years ago access to items of a sexual nature was limited for women, the UK now has five strong female-led erotic retailers, each with their own style, but all with a strong awareness on women as consumers.

Attitudes are changing, and (thankfully) so are England's sex shops.

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SA Women Prefer Shopping To Sex

It's been one of the burning issues of modern male-female relationships. We've suspected as much for a long time and now, finally, our worst fears have been confirmed. A recent survey conducted in South Africa concludes that women value shopping above sex.

A drinks company recently conducted a "Fantasy Survey" that asked a series of questions about women's fantasies. The study revealed that 45% of women surveyed valued shopping over sex, while only 26% value sex over shopping. In addition, the study found that 75% of the women surveyed believed that they have a shoe fetish and 70% felt that they did not have enough clothes in their wardrobe.

That can't be a very encouraging sign for men and it certainly takes a huge part of the romance out of modern relationships. Does that mean we should now woo a woman with shoes and gift checks instead of roses and chocolates? Does that mean that we now take them on dates to the shopping mall instead of to the theater and restaurants? All of a sudden, the price tag for romance and dating has suddenly hit a roof. It reminds one of the old Madonna song that goes, "I'm living in a material world and I am a material girl."

And here are some findings that should be especially important for men: Nearly half or 48% of the women believed that men had no real understanding of their needs and desires while another 40% felt that they were still misunderstood but that men made an effort to understand their wishes.

The Fantasy Survey also highlighted women's aspiration for fame and prestige. As many as 78% of women respondents said they fantasized about attending the Oscar awards and being given a red-carpet welcome. In addition, 72% of women surveyed had dreams of being an actress in any of the leading South African soap operas.

And here's the survey finding that really takes the cake: a stunning 63% of women respondents said that the world would be better and more peaceful if the women were put in charge instead of the men. Apparently, after spending decades aspiring for and attaining equality of the sexes, women now want to run the whole show.

But hey, everyone is entitled to their own fantasy. And the survey also offered a dose of reality: nearly half of the women surveyed believed that their fantasies would not come true

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